Buying an engagement ring is a once-in-a-lifetime purchase, filled with excitement—and often, a bit of uncertainty. With so many options and a vast world of diamonds to navigate, it's easy to encounter information that may not entirely be accurate. Here, we’ll break down some of the most common engagement ring myths to guide you toward making a well-informed decision.

Myth #1: Bigger is Always Better

One of the most persistent myths surrounding engagement rings is that the size of the diamond equates to the value of the ring and the depth of your love. However, the significance of a ring comes down to its quality, craftsmanship, and the sentiment it represents — not just carat weight.

While carat size is a factor, the cut, clarity, and colour of the diamond greatly influence its beauty. For instance, a well-cut smaller diamond can often look more brilliant than a larger diamond with a lower cut grade. Consider what will truly suit her taste and lifestyle over simply going for the biggest stone. Quality and elegance often make a more lasting impression. 

Myth #2: Diamonds are the Only Option

Diamonds have been the traditional choice for engagement rings for over a century, but they’re certainly not the only option. Sapphires, emeralds, and even alternative stones like morganite and aquamarine have gained popularity for their unique beauty and symbolism. Each gemstone carries its own personality and charm, offering a distinctive and personal touch to the ring.

Choosing a gemstone engagement ring can also reflect her individuality and make the piece feel more personal. Don’t hesitate to explore other options if a diamond doesn’t feel like the right fit; ultimately, it’s about finding a stone that resonates with both of you.

Myth #3: The “Three-Months’ Salary” Rule

You may have heard the “rule” that you should spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring. This guideline originated from marketing campaigns decades ago and has since become widely accepted—but it’s not a requirement. A meaningful engagement ring is about what feels right for you and your financial situation, not a set percentage of income.

At Morgan & Co., we believe in helping you find a ring that reflects your love and style, regardless of a formulaic budget. Choose what resonates with your unique story, and remember that a well-thought-out design often holds more meaning than an extravagant price tag.

Myth #4: Clarity is the Most Important Quality

While clarity is one of the “Four Cs” of diamond grading (carat, colour, clarity, cut), it’s often less critical to the overall appearance than people realise. Small inclusions, which are natural imperfections within the stone, are usually invisible to the naked eye and don’t affect the diamond’s sparkle. 

More important to consider is the diamond’s cut, which determines how light reflects within the stone and impacts its brilliance. A well-cut diamond maximises light return, creating that signature sparkle. Focusing on cut quality will likely give you more visible impact than striving for a higher clarity grade that might not be noticeable.

Myth #5: Engagement Rings Should Be a Surprise

The tradition of surprising your partner with a ring can be romantic, but it’s not the only approach. Today, more couples are choosing to shop for engagement rings together, ensuring the ring matches her personal style and preferences. Involving her in the process allows you to design a ring that aligns with her tastes, creating a piece she’ll cherish for a lifetime.

If you still want an element of surprise, consider narrowing down a few options with her input, and then adding a final personal touch yourself. This way, you maintain the magic of the moment while ensuring the ring is everything she envisions.

Myth #6: All Diamonds Look the Same

Not all diamonds are created equal. Variations in cut, colour, and even the origin of the diamond can significantly impact its appearance and feel. A round, brilliant-cut diamond exudes a classic elegance, while an oval or pear-cut can add a touch of vintage allure. The colour, whether icy white or warm with hints of yellow, will also shape the ring’s personality.

Choosing a diamond involves understanding the unique qualities of each stone. Working with a jeweller who takes the time to explain these differences will help you select a diamond that genuinely resonates with you and your partner.

Myth #7: Custom Rings Are Complicated and Costly

The thought of designing a custom engagement ring may seem overwhelming, but it’s often simpler and more accessible than you might think. A custom ring allows you to create a piece that embodies your relationship’s unique story. Working with an experienced designer, you can incorporate personal touches, like a meaningful engraving or a design element inspired by shared memories.

Custom rings don’t have to break the bank, either. At Morgan & Co., we work within a range of budgets to design rings that are both beautiful and meaningful. A custom piece offers an opportunity to create a lasting symbol of your love that’s truly one of a kind.

Final Thoughts

An engagement ring is more than a piece of jewellery; it’s a symbol of your commitment and a reflection of your journey together. By understanding these common myths, you’re better equipped to make a thoughtful, well-informed choice that aligns with your partner’s vision and your values.

At Morgan & Co, we’re here to guide you through every step of this meaningful decision. Our team is dedicated to helping you find—or create—the ring that tells your story perfectly. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about adhering to rules or trends; it’s about finding a ring that celebrates your love.

Book your free consultation with our team to discuss your engagement ring. 

With Love,
Morgan xo