Wedding Day Tips & Pre-Wedding Advice — From Morgan & Co
Hello, beautiful brides-to-be! I'm Morgan from Morgan & Co, Sunshine Coast's bespoke jewellery design studio. Planning a wedding is a joyous yet often stressful journey, and it’s perfectly normal to experience anxiety as your big day approaches. Having gone through it myself, I understand how overwhelming it can feel when there is so much to organise and get through. Here are my top tips for overcoming wedding anxiety and ensuring a calm and joyful lead-up to your special day.
1. Create a Realistic Timeline —
One of the most effective ways to manage wedding anxiety is to create a detailed and realistic timeline. Break down tasks into manageable steps and set deadlines for each. This approach not only helps keep you organised but also provides a sense of accomplishment as you check off tasks. Remember, it’s okay to adjust the timeline as needed—flexibility is key.
2. Prioritise Self-Care —
As you tackle the lead up to your wedding, it’s crucial to prioritise self-care. Regular exercise, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep can significantly reduce anxiety levels. Consider incorporating relaxation techniques like deep breathing exercises, meditation, or yoga into your routine. Taking time for yourself helps maintain your physical and mental well-being, allowing you to handle wedding stress more effectively. I found that taking long walks with my partner was a great way to catch up and debrief while getting some fresh air and vitamin D.
3. Communicate Openly with Your Partner —
Open communication with your partner is essential during the wedding planning process. Share your anxieties and concerns with each other, and work together to find solutions. Remember, you’re a team, and supporting each other through this journey strengthens your bond. Sometimes, simply talking about your worries can alleviate a lot of the pressure you’re feeling and avoid the bridezilla coming out in you!
4. Delegate Responsibilities —
You don’t have to do everything yourself. Enlist the help of friends, family, or hire a wedding planner to share the load. Delegating responsibilities not only lightens your workload but also allows others to feel involved in your special day. Trusting others with tasks can reduce your anxiety and ensure that everything gets done.
5. Focus on What Matters —
It’s easy to get caught up in the details or organisation of your big day, but try to keep your focus on what truly matters—the celebration of your love. Perfection isn’t the goal; the goal is to marry the person you love surrounded by the people who care about you. Keep perspective by reminding yourself of the bigger picture and the magical occasion you’re preparing for.
Top 5 Wedding Day Tips from Morgan & Co
Now that you have made it through the lead up, let's talk about your big day! Having organised my own wedding and helped countless brides design their dream engagement rings and wedding bands, I’ve gathered a wealth of experience in the wedding planning realm. Here are my top five wedding day tips to ensure your special day is as magical and stress-free as possible.
1. Start Your Day with a Calm Mind —
Your wedding day is bound to be emotional and filled with excitement, so it’s crucial to start it on a calm and positive note. Begin your day with a moment of peace—whether it's a few minutes of meditation, a yoga session, or simply enjoying a quiet cup of tea. Surround yourself with a calm environment, and only invite those who bring positive energy. This sets the tone for a serene and enjoyable day. Remember that all the planning has been done, so it's now time to enjoy it.
2. Delegate, Delegate, Delegate —
As a bride, you’ve likely been involved in every detail of your wedding planning. However, on the big day, it’s essential to step back and delegate tasks to trusted friends, family, or a wedding coordinator. Assign someone to handle the small details, like coordinating with vendors or managing the timeline. This allows you to focus on enjoying your day without the stress of managing logistics.
3. Take Care of Yourself —
It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of activities on your wedding day, but remember to take care of yourself. Stay hydrated, eat light and nutritious meals, and take breaks when needed. Keeping snacks and water handy is a good idea, especially during the pre-ceremony preparations. Feeling your best will help you enjoy every moment and keep your energy levels up.
4. Capture the Moments —
Your wedding day will pass by in a blur, so it’s important to capture the memories. While you’ll have a professional photographer, consider setting up a photo station or providing disposable cameras for guests to use. These candid moments captured by friends and family often turn out to be some of the most cherished memories. Also, designate someone to take videos of key moments, or have a content creator there to capture these moments, like your vows and speeches, which you’ll love watching back later.
5. Focus on the Love —
Amidst all the planning and festivities, it’s easy to lose sight of what the day is truly about—your love and commitment to your partner. Take moments throughout the day to connect with your partner, whether it’s a quiet moment alone before the reception or a quick whisper during the days events. These small, intimate moments will help you stay grounded and remind you of the significance of the day. I remember one of the most special moments of my own wedding day was reading the letter my partner wrote me the morning of our wedding and I still have that letter and will forever cherish it.
Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your life, and with a bit of preparation and the right mindset, it can be a smooth and joyous experience. Starting the day calmly, delegating tasks, taking care of yourself, capturing the moments, and focusing on your love will help ensure your day is unforgettable for all the right reasons.
Here’s to a stress-free and wonderful wedding day!
With love —
Morgan
