Top 7 Engagement Ring Myths Busted: What You Need to Know Before You Buy
Buying an engagement ring is a once-in-a-lifetime purchase, filled with excitement—and often, a bit of uncertainty. With so many options and a vast world of diamonds to navigate, it's easy to encounter information that may not entirely be accurate. Here, we’ll break down some of the most common engagement ring myths to guide you toward making a well-informed decision.
Myth #1: Bigger is Always Better
One of the most persistent myths surrounding engagement rings is that the size of the diamond equates to the value of the ring and the depth of your love. However, the significance of a ring comes down to its quality, craftsmanship, and the sentiment it represents — not just carat weight.
While carat size is a factor, the cut, clarity, and colour of the diamond greatly influence its beauty. For instance, a well-cut smaller diamond can often look more brilliant than a larger diamond with a lower cut grade. Consider what will truly suit her taste and lifestyle over simply going for the biggest stone. Quality and elegance often make a more lasting impression.
Myth #2: Diamonds are the Only Option
Diamonds have been the traditional choice for engagement rings for over a century, but they’re certainly not the only option. Sapphires, emeralds, and even alternative stones like morganite and aquamarine have gained popularity for their unique beauty and symbolism. Each gemstone carries its own personality and charm, offering a distinctive and personal touch to the ring.
Choosing a gemstone engagement ring can also reflect her individuality and make the piece feel more personal. Don’t hesitate to explore other options if a diamond doesn’t feel like the right fit; ultimately, it’s about finding a stone that resonates with both of you.
Myth #3: The “Three-Months’ Salary” Rule
You may have heard the “rule” that you should spend three months’ salary on an engagement ring. This guideline originated from marketing campaigns decades ago and has since become widely accepted—but it’s not a requirement. A meaningful engagement ring is about what feels right for you and your financial situation, not a set percentage of income.
At Morgan & Co., we believe in helping you find a ring that reflects your love and style, regardless of a formulaic budget. Choose what resonates with your unique story, and remember that a well-thought-out design often holds more meaning than an extravagant price tag.
Myth #4: Clarity is the Most Important Quality
While clarity is one of the “Four Cs” of diamond grading (carat, colour, clarity, cut), it’s often less critical to the overall appearance than people realise. Small inclusions, which are natural imperfections within the stone, are usually invisible to the naked eye and don’t affect the diamond’s sparkle.
More important to consider is the diamond’s cut, which determines how light reflects within the stone and impacts its brilliance. A well-cut diamond maximises light return, creating that signature sparkle. Focusing on cut quality will likely give you more visible impact than striving for a higher clarity grade that might not be noticeable.
Myth #5: Engagement Rings Should Be a Surprise
The tradition of surprising your partner with a ring can be romantic, but it’s not the only approach. Today, more couples are choosing to shop for engagement rings together, ensuring the ring matches her personal style and preferences. Involving her in the process allows you to design a ring that aligns with her tastes, creating a piece she’ll cherish for a lifetime.
If you still want an element of surprise, consider narrowing down a few options with her input, and then adding a final personal touch yourself. This way, you maintain the magic of the moment while ensuring the ring is everything she envisions.
Myth #6: All Diamonds Look the Same
Not all diamonds are created equal. Variations in cut, colour, and even the origin of the diamond can significantly impact its appearance and feel. A round, brilliant-cut diamond exudes a classic elegance, while an oval or pear-cut can add a touch of vintage allure. The colour, whether icy white or warm with hints of yellow, will also shape the ring’s personality.
Choosing a diamond involves understanding the unique qualities of each stone. Working with a jeweller who takes the time to explain these differences will help you select a diamond that genuinely resonates with you and your partner.
Myth #7: Custom Rings Are Complicated and Costly
The thought of designing a custom engagement ring may seem overwhelming, but it’s often simpler and more accessible than you might think. A custom ring allows you to create a piece that embodies your relationship’s unique story. Working with an experienced designer, you can incorporate personal touches, like a meaningful engraving or a design element inspired by shared memories.
Custom rings don’t have to break the bank, either. At Morgan & Co., we work within a range of budgets to design rings that are both beautiful and meaningful. A custom piece offers an opportunity to create a lasting symbol of your love that’s truly one of a kind.
Final Thoughts
An engagement ring is more than a piece of jewellery; it’s a symbol of your commitment and a reflection of your journey together. By understanding these common myths, you’re better equipped to make a thoughtful, well-informed choice that aligns with your partner’s vision and your values.
At Morgan & Co, we’re here to guide you through every step of this meaningful decision. Our team is dedicated to helping you find—or create—the ring that tells your story perfectly. Because at the end of the day, it’s not about adhering to rules or trends; it’s about finding a ring that celebrates your love.
Book your free consultation with our team to discuss your engagement ring.
With Love,
Morgan xo
Planning the Perfect Proposal: A Step-by-Step Guide to Creating an Unforgettable Moment
Proposing is one of life’s most cherished and unforgettable moments, a milestone that symbolises the start of a new chapter in your love story. At Morgan & Co., we’re here to guide you every step of the way, from planning the perfect proposal to creating a bespoke engagement ring that your partner will treasure forever. This guide will walk you through the key elements of planning a memorable proposal while introducing you to creative ways to ensure the engagement ring is as unique and meaningful as your love.
Step 1: Know Your Partner’s Preferences
Understanding your partner’s style is an essential first step in the proposal planning process. Take note of their jewellery preferences — do they gravitate towards timeless and classic designs or bold and modern pieces? If you’re unsure, our expert team can guide you by exploring their lifestyle, interests, and even their social media profiles to uncover subtle clues about their dream ring.
Step 2: Get the Ring Right
The engagement ring is more than a piece of jewellery — it’s a lasting symbol of your love story. At Morgan & Co., we’ve designed a six-step process to make creating your perfect engagement ring seamless and enjoyable. Whether you have a clear vision or need a bit of guidance, we’ll ensure the ring reflects your unique love story.
Our Six-Step Process:
- Enquiry: Book your free consultation online, via phone, or email.
- Consultation: Work with us in-person, over the phone, or via video to define your design vision.
- Sourcing: We’ll source the highest quality diamonds or coloured gemstones to suit your preferences and budget.
- Design: Collaborate with us to finalise the ring design, with unlimited revisions until it’s perfect.
- Production: Your ring will be expertly crafted in Australia by skilled artisans.
- Completion: Your completed ring will undergo rigorous quality checks before being ready for pickup or delivery.
Step 3: Choose the Perfect Location
The setting of your proposal plays a significant role in creating a memorable experience. Whether it’s a scenic beach, a lush garden, or a place with sentimental value, choose a location that feels special to your relationship. Read our blog on Top Places to Propose on the Sunshine Coast for some stunning ideas.
Step 4: Alternative Proposal ideas — keeping the surprise but allow her to design her own ring
Not sure how to propose while ensuring the ring is perfect? Here are three creative ideas to help you keep the surprise while giving your partner the opportunity to help design her dream ring:
1. Propose with a Loose Diamond or Coloured Stone
This modern approach involves selecting a loose diamond or gemstone to present during the proposal. During our consultation, we’ll guide you through diamond education, covering everything from shapes and quality to your partner’s style and your budget.
Once you’ve chosen the perfect stone, propose with it and bring your partner back to our Buderim studio to design the ring together over champagne. This thoughtful approach combines the excitement of the proposal with the joy of creating a bespoke piece she’ll love.
2. Propose with a Placeholder or Stunt Ring
For those who want to surprise their partner while giving them control over the final design, a placeholder ring is an excellent choice. We offer a selection of stunning placeholder rings at our Buderim studio for a $1,000 deposit, which is deducted from the final cost of the engagement ring.
After the proposal, you and your fiancé can visit our studio together to co-create the ring of her dreams. She’ll have the opportunity to personalise the design, ensuring it’s everything she’s ever wanted.
3. Propose and Visit Our Studio the Same Day
If spontaneity is your style, consider proposing and then bringing your partner straight to our Buderim studio to celebrate. We’ll greet you with champagne, flowers, and a gift to commemorate the occasion.
You can also work with us beforehand to design a ring concept or select a range of diamonds and gemstones for her to choose from during the visit. This approach blends the surprise of the proposal with the joy of customising her forever ring.
Step 5: Plan the Details
It’s the small details that make a proposal unforgettable. Think about incorporating meaningful touches such as candles, flowers, or your favourite song. These thoughtful elements will create a romantic atmosphere and make the moment even more special.
Step 6: Practice What You’ll Say
While the ring and setting are important, your words will be what your partner remembers most. Take some time to reflect on your feelings and practice expressing them. Whether it’s a heartfelt declaration or a story about your journey together, speak from the heart.
Step 7: Capture the Moment
Don’t forget to document this once-in-a-lifetime moment! Consider hiring a photographer or videographer to discreetly capture the proposal. Involving loved ones, if your partner would enjoy that, can also make the experience even more memorable. Read our blog on stunning locations and photography tips and explore our recommended photographers who will capture your moment perfectly.
Ready to Plan Your Perfect Proposal?
At Morgan & Co, we’re here to ensure every detail of your proposal is as special as your love story. From designing a bespoke engagement ring to celebrating your "Yes!" moment, we’re dedicated to making this milestone unforgettable.
Book your complimentary consultation today, and let’s create something truly beautiful together.
With love,
Morgan x
Emerald Cut vs Radiant Cut: Your Ultimate Diamond Guide
Ever been caught in the shimmering allure of a diamond? Gazing at a diamond's glimmer can be like looking into an endless sea of stars - but it's more than just its shine. Take emerald cut vs radiant cut, for example.
Imagine being at a crossroads, one path leads you to an emerald-cut diamond - elegant and sophisticated with its step-like facets that mirror stairways leading to infinite depths. The other way introduces you to the radiant-cut gem - bold and vivacious as it dances with dramatic flashes across every facet.
Customise Your Romance: Remodel Your Existing Engagement Ring to Reflect Your Current Style
At Morgan & Co, we understand that modifying an engagement ring can feel like a delicate dance.
This precious piece of jewellery isn't just about sparkle and shine; it's steeped in sentimentality and memories too. The thought of altering your treasured token might seem daunting. After all, how do you balance the desire for change with preserving its sentimental value? But here's the good news: modifying an engagement ring doesn't mean erasing its history. Instead, it’s about breathing new life into something that already holds so much meaning to you.
In this blog, we will be tackling the reasons why you might want to modify your ring, and ways you can do it while reserving its sentimental value.