High Set Engagement Rings v's Low Set Engagement Rings

When it comes to choosing an engagement ring, one of the most important decisions you’ll make is whether to go with a high set or low set design. It’s not just about the aesthetics—although that’s certainly a big part of it—but also about how the ring will fit into your life, your lifestyle, and your future plans for a wedding band. At Morgan & Co, we take the time to get to know you, to understand your daily routine, your hobbies, your job, and your personal style, so we can guide you in making the best choice for your setting height.

High Set vs. Low Set: What’s the Difference?

A high set engagement ring features a raised setting, where the diamond or gemstone sits prominently above the band. This style is perfect for those who want their ring to make a bold statement, as it allows maximum light to hit the stone, resulting in incredible sparkle and brilliance. On the other hand, a low set engagement ring has the stone set closer to the band, offering a more understated, sleek look. It’s ideal for those who lead an active lifestyle or prefer a more subtle, classic style. 

When you first try on a high set engagement ring, it may initially feel higher than expected simply because you’re not accustomed to wearing it. We often encourage our clients to wear the ring throughout the consultation, allowing them to get used to the setting. Over time, the height becomes less noticeable as you become more familiar with the feel. 

Lifestyle and Setting Height

One of the first things we’ll discuss during your consultation is your lifestyle. If you’re someone who uses your hands a lot—whether you’re in a profession like nursing or teaching, or you’re simply an active person—a low set engagement ring might be the best choice. This style is less likely to snag on clothing or objects and is generally more comfortable for everyday wear. Another option for those with an active lifestyle or a job where you use your hands a lot, is a bezel set engagement ring, such as The Breeta Ring. 

On the other hand, if you’re drawn to the drama and sparkle of a high set ring, and your lifestyle allows for it, then this could be the perfect option for you. We’ll talk through how you envision wearing your ring, what your daily life looks like, and how important comfort is to you, all to ensure you make a choice that feels right.

Planning for Your Future Wedding Band

We also need to consider what kind of wedding band you might want in the future. If you dream of a large diamond band, for example, we need to account for that in the design of your engagement ring. A high setting can often allow for a wedding band to sit flush against the engagement ring, while a low setting may require a custom-fitted band to achieve the same look.

At Morgan & Co, we provide CAD (Computer-Aided Design) drawings that show you exactly how your ring will look, including the setting height. This gives you the chance to see the measurements and visualise the final product before you sign off on the design. We believe in complete transparency and want you to feel confident in your choice. 

An example of a CAD design showing setting height 

Avoiding Common Pitfalls

Unfortunately, we often see couples who have purchased their engagement rings online or from chain jewellery stores, only to find that their wedding band won’t sit flush with the engagement ring. This can be incredibly frustrating, and in many cases, we have to remodel the ring to achieve the desired look and feel for our client's wedding ring set. These are issues that could have been avoided with proper education and guidance from the beginning.

That’s why we take the time to walk you through every detail of the design process, giving you all the information you need to make an informed decision. Our goal is to create a ring that not only looks beautiful but also fits seamlessly into your life, both now and in the future.

At Morgan & Com we’re not just about creating beautiful jewellery—we’re about crafting pieces that tell your unique story, pieces that are thoughtfully designed to suit your job, lifestyle, and personal style. We’re here to ensure that your engagement ring is everything you’ve dreamed of and more, right down to the perfect setting height.

Book your complementary consultation for your custom engagement ring at our Sunshine Coast based studio or virtually to discuss your forever ring. 

With Love,
Morgan x