Few diamond engagement ring styles capture the essence of romance and connection quite like the Toi et Moi design. Translating to "you and me" in French, Toi et Moi rings are the ultimate symbol of two souls coming together. This style has been beloved for centuries and is currently experiencing a modern resurgence as couples seek unique and meaningful ways to express their love.
The Lucy Ring
Creating The Lucy Ring was such an exciting journey, one that truly embodied the magic of custom design. The ring features a stunning natural fancy yellow marquise diamond paired with a high-quality pear-cut lab-grown diamond in a striking toi et moi style. It took several consultations to ensure we found the perfect size, proportion, and shapes to not only complement each other but also suit our client’s finger and vision. We sourced and reviewed multiple diamonds to get the color contrast just right between the yellow and white stones. Once we selected the ideal diamonds, we created a wax model so our client could try it on, ensuring the angles and balance were perfect. While it was a more extended process than usual, every step was worth it. We wanted to ensure our client had her dream forever ring, and seeing her joy at the final result made it all worthwhile.
The Origins of Toi et Moi Rings
The history of Toi et Moi rings is as enchanting as the design itself. The concept dates back to 1796 when Napoleon Bonaparte gifted Josephine a sapphire-and-diamond Toi et Moi ring to mark their engagement. The design was intended to represent two stones—two hearts—joined in eternal love. This romantic sentiment has carried through the ages, making Toi et Moi rings a timeless expression of commitment.
Why Toi et Moi Rings Are Rising in Popularity
In today’s world of personalised love stories, Toi et Moi rings are making a grand comeback. Celebrities like Megan Fox and Emily Ratajkowski have embraced this style, showcasing the beauty of mixing stones, shapes, and sizes to create a design that feels one-of-a-kind. The flexibility of Toi et Moi rings is a big part of their appeal; they offer endless possibilities for customisation, making each piece as unique as the couple it represents.
The Art of Mixing Cuts, Shapes, and Colours
One of the most exciting aspects of Toi et Moi rings is the opportunity to combine different diamond cuts, shapes, and even colours. Imagine the brilliance of a round diamond paired with an elongated pear shape, or the timeless elegance of an oval complemented by a bold emerald cut. The asymmetry of these pairings adds a modern edge to this classic design.
For those looking to infuse a pop of colour, a Toi et Moi ring offers the perfect canvas. A vivid sapphire, emerald, or pink diamond can sit beside a traditional clear diamond, creating a striking contrast that tells its own story. This pairing of colours and shapes creates a bold, meaningful, and unforgettable piece.
Customising a Toi et Moi Ring at Morgan & Co.
At Morgan & Co., we love working with couples to craft their perfect Toi et Moi rings. Whether you dream of a vintage-inspired design or a sleek, modern take on this style, we’ll guide you through every decision—from selecting the stones to designing the setting.
A popular approach is to use a clear diamond alongside a coloured gemstone to reflect contrast and harmony. We also help clients mix diamond sizes and shapes to create balance and symmetry that feels just right. The possibilities are endless, and the result is always a stunning ring that reflects your unique love story.
Bold Bands and Multi-Stone Settings
Toi et Moi rings are also finding their place in the modern trend of bold bands and multi-stone settings. Wider bands enhance the drama of the design, while intricate details like engraving or texture add depth and individuality. Incorporating smaller accent stones or unusual settings into a Toi et Moi ring can further elevate its beauty, making it a true statement piece.
The Importance of Quality and Expertise
When designing a Toi et Moi ring, attention to detail and stone quality are paramount. The craftsmanship required to set two stones in harmony is complex, making it essential to work with a jeweller you trust. At Morgan & Co — your Sunshine Coast Jeweller — we bring expertise and care to every step of the process, ensuring your custom engagement ring not only looks stunning but also stands the test of time.
A Celebration of Love
Toi et Moi rings are more than just jewellery; they are a celebration of love and unity. Whether you’re drawn to the style’s rich history, its endless versatility, or its modern edge, this design is a beautiful way to tell your story. At Morgan & Co, we’re here to help you create a ring that is as unique as your journey together at your free consultation with our expert team.
Because in the end, what could be more romantic than a ring that says, “you and me, forever”?
With Love,
Morgan xo
