Morgan & Co jewellery love hearing our clients' engagement journey. We have found that many times the man may need a subtle hint to get on the same page as his lovey lady. 

So yes, it’s perfectly okay to drop hints about wanting to get engaged, as long as it's done thoughtfully and respectfully. Many couples reach a point where discussing the future, including engagement, is a natural part of their relationship. Here are a few things to keep in mind.

Why It's OK to Drop Hints

Opens Communication — Hints can lead to open and honest conversations about your future together. It ensures you're both on the same page about the direction of the relationship.

Helps Gauge Readiness —Dropping subtle hints allows you to test the waters and see how your partner feels about getting engaged without putting too much pressure on them.

Takes the Guesswork Out — Sometimes, your partner may be thinking about engagement but is unsure when the right time is. Hints can give them reassurance that you're ready too.

How to Do It Subtly

Talk About the Future — Mention your long-term plans as a couple in a casual way. You can talk about trips, buying a home, or other future milestones, naturally leading into engagement discussions.

Drop Positive Hints About Friends’ Engagements — When a friend gets engaged, you could casually say something like, “That’s so exciting! I’d love that one day.”

Be Playful — You can add a bit of humour to lighten the mood, like playfully asking, “If you were going to propose, would it be a surprise or would you ask first?”

Discuss Values & Goals — Talk about the deeper aspects of marriage — commitment, partnership, and what it means to both of you. This helps align your goals and sets the stage for a natural conversation about engagement.

Mention Engagement Ring Preferences — As we discussed earlier, you can drop hints about your ring preferences. It can signal you're thinking about the next step, without being overly direct about the timing.

When to Be Direct

If you've been together for a while and feel strongly about getting engaged soon, a direct but calm conversation might be necessary. Open communication can help avoid confusion or frustration.

Ultimately, it's about respecting your partner's pace while also expressing your desires and hopes for the future.

Now that you are sure you are both on the same page in regards to wanting to get engaged. Here are some more subtle ways to drop hints about the engagement ring you want:

Leave your phone on the instagram page that highlights Morgan Co Jewellery: Strategically leave  the page open with your favourite rings.

Compliment Strangers’ Rings: If you’re out and notice someone with a ring  you like, make a positive comment about it in front of him. It’s an easy way to showcase your style preferences.

Alternatively, If your friend or acquaintance gets engaged and you don't like the shape or design, let your partner know your thoughts. 

Casual Conversations with Friends: When talking to friends in front of him, you can bring up ring styles you love or show your friends pictures of rings, knowing he’s listening.

Plan a “Just for Fun” Shopping Trip: Suggest going window shopping or make a diamond education appointment with Morgan Co jewellery, Sunshine Coast as a fun activity.  Casually point out rings you like, without making it too serious.

Create a “Dream List”: If you’re using a shared shopping account or wish list service (like Amazon or other gift registries), add a few rings you like. He may check it for future gift ideas!

Use Your Phone Background: Change your phone wallpaper or lock screen to an image of your dream ring. If he happens to notice, you can explain how much you love that style.

Talk About Celebrity Engagements: When discussing celebrity engagements or proposals, casually mention aspects of the ring that stand out to you, like the cut, setting, or metal.

Ask for “Style Advice”: Ask his opinion on jewellery styles when you're out shopping for other accessories, like earrings or necklaces. This might lead to a conversation about ring preferences.

Morgan Co Jewellery: Diamond education appointment 

Morgan Co, Sunshine Coast, offers a complimentary one-hour appointment to help couples understand the significance of knowing exactly what they are investing in when purchasing an engagement ring. This session provides valuable insights into the key factors that influence the value and quality of the ring, ensuring couples make informed decisions.

By bringing up  diamond and gold education can be a clever and natural segue into discussing engagement. It allows you to casually introduce the topic while sharing interesting information. Here’s how you can approach it in a light and engaging way:

How to Use Diamond & Gold Education to Lead Into Engagement Talks

Start with General Interest — Begin by expressing a curiosity or newfound interest in diamonds or gold. For example, you could say:

"I was reading about the different types of diamonds and it’s so fascinating how they’re graded based on the 4Cs—cut, clarity, colour, and carat weight!"

"Did you know there’s a big difference between 14ct and 18ct gold? Apparently, the higher the carat, the purer the gold, but it's also softer."

Talk About Ring Styles — Once you're discussing diamonds and gold, you can naturally transition into ring styles and preferences. You might say:

"I’ve learned that Old Mine Cut diamonds have such a vintage charm, but I also love how modern round cuts sparkle more. Which one do you think looks better?"

"I never realised how many options there are for engagement rings. Some people prefer yellow gold, others love rose gold or platinum. It got me thinking about what I’d choose if I had to pick."

Bring Up Friends’ or Celebrities’ Rings — Use a friend's engagement or a celebrity proposal to steer the conversation toward engagement rings and marriage. You could say:

"My friend just got engaged, and her ring is gorgeous! I think it’s a cushion-cut diamond set in platinum. Do you think cushion-cut diamonds are timeless?"

"I saw that celebrity X just got engaged with a yellow diamond in a rose gold setting. It got me thinking about how unique engagement rings can be!"

Ask for His Opinion — Get him involved by asking for his thoughts on ring styles, diamond cuts, or gold types. This makes the conversation feel more like shared interest rather than a direct hint. You could say:

"What’s your opinion on white gold vs. yellow gold? Which do you think would look better as an engagement ring?"

"I’m curious, if you were picking out a diamond, would you focus more on size or sparkle?"

Transition to Engagement — After sharing interesting facts and opinions, it can smoothly lead to a conversation about the future, like:

"It’s interesting learning about this stuff, and it makes me think about what kind of engagement ring I'd love someday."

"Talking about diamonds and rings has got me excited for when we’re ready to make that step."

Why It Works:

Casual and Non-Pressuring: Discussing diamonds and gold as a subject of interest keeps the conversation light and non-pressuring.

Builds Engagement Interest: Sharing knowledge shows that you’re engaged with the idea of engagement, but it allows the topic to unfold naturally.

Opens Dialogue: Once you’ve introduced the topic, it opens the door for deeper discussions about your relationship, future, and readiness for engagement.

By making it fun and informative, this approach allows you to express your feelings about engagement without it feeling forced.

These hints allow you to share your tastes and preferences without being overly direct, giving him the opportunity to surprise you with the perfect engagement ring.

Your Sunshine Coast Jeweller

The journey towards engagement is a deeply personal one, and at Morgan & Co, your Sunshine Coast jeweller, we understand that every couple navigates it differently. Whether you're embarking on this exciting chapter together, hand-in-hand, or if one partner is seeking to create a breathtaking surprise, our bespoke approach is tailored to your unique needs. We cherish the opportunity to guide you through this process with private, one-on-one consultations, ensuring that the creation of your custom engagement ring is as special and meaningful as the love it represents. From those subtle hints and shared dreams to the individual seeking the perfect symbol of commitment, we're here to listen, educate, and craft a ring that truly tells your story.

With Love,
Laura xo